Monday, September 8, 2014

What's new

It seems like the last few months have been flying by here, we are fast approaching our one year mark of living in Africa and before we know it we will be returning home for the holidays. I thought I'd take a moment and simply write about some of the fun things that have been going on in our lives the last couple of months.

In July Chase and I went to our first Rugby game. We went with several other couples to watch the Blue Bulls play. The whole idea of Rugby is confusing to me there are different leagues and they seem to play all the time, I can't keep track of when seasons end and begin. The Blue Bulls are part of the SA Rugby Union league and are based out of pretoria, so they are easy to go and watch. They play other South African teams around the country. In August Chase took the boys to a Springbok rugby game which is the National South African team, they play teams from other countries. The afternoon he took the boys they were playing Argentina. I was sick so I missed all the fun, but the boys had a blast and loved being at the game with dad.
At the end of July Chase and I went with a group of friends to watch a local soccer match. Soweto the largest township outside of Johannesburg has two soccer teams The Orlando Pirates and the Kaizer Chiefs and when they play against each other it's a huge match. They held the match at the FNB soccer stadium where Mandela held his first speech, It was later increased for larger sporting events and the World Cup. The stadium holds roughly 90,000 people and the game was sold out! We took a shuttle to the game and as we were driving up we weren't sure what we had gotten ourselves in to. There were people every where and they were more then excited for the game. Before we went to the game we had been told by several local South African's that we would probably be some of the only white people at the game and they weren't joking. White South African's warned us about safety at the event, saying things like we would be targets for pick pockets and violence if the game became intense. But, once we walked into the stadium I think we all realized there wasn't any threat there. Most of the fans thought it was great that we came, and several asked to take pictures with us.  This is just one of the many examples of the racism and division so prominent in this country and the world; white people afraid of black people.. etc. Chase did have an encounter with a pick pocket, but the guy was unsuccessful, he dropped Chase's phone as he tried to run away. The game turned out to be so much fun and we were happy we went for the experience.
We have missed our American sports this year, but have found some good ones to fill the place of Football and Baseball. We haven't gotten into cricket as much, but I am sure we will try to attend a match before we leave here!






 In June we added a new member to the household and decided to get a cat. Friends of ours were moving back to America and were unable to take their cat with them. We decided to go ahead and take her and see how it goes. The boys changed her name to Tiger because of her Black and Gold coloring, but she doesn't really come to anything except "Kitty" and the rattle of her food dish. The first month in our house she was pretty timid and didn't want to interact much with us. However, now that she has gotten comfortable she is your standard house cat. She comes around when she wants attention and lets us know when her food bowl is empty. She tolerates the boys well and seems to be pretty easy going. We miss our Dottie terribly, but can't justify getting another dog while we are here. Though she's no dog, Tiger is a good substitute for now.



Other things happening these last few months, I finally got my own bike and we now can take regular family bike rides. We've had fun riding through the game reserve and before we know it we will all be out on the trails with Chase! I want to start Mountain Biking with Chase and am making it a goal for the next year. I need to over come my fears of falling and getting scraped up, but I figure I've overcome so many fears this last year why not keep going!

In other fitness news we I spent the month of August doing a Pilates Challenge at the studio I got to here in the neighborhood. The Challenge was that we attend 5 classes a week 2 - mat pilates classes, 2 - pilates rebound classes (which is a fun aerobic workout on trampolines), and 1 surprise fitness class. Everyone in the challenge took before and after pictures and there is one winner at the end of the month who can win 3 nights at a beach resort. It's been fun pushing myself to go to all these classes and even though I had a stomach bug in the middle of it all, I was able to make up the classes I missed and keep going. We don't find out the winner for another week, but either way I am happy with the results of the last month, and am going to keep up with it all as much as possible!


Spencer is enjoying being three and is more crazy then ever! He want's to do everything Mitchell does and scares us with his stunts sometimes. He had a musical concert at his school over the weekend in which he dressed up like a bear and danced around the stage with his class. It was pretty funny to see these kids dressed up in their costumes.. the teachers had their work cut out for them that's for sure!



Finally, the biggest news of the last couple of months, Mitchell started Kindergarten at the American school here in Pretoria! Mitchell has been so excited to start at the big school and thankfully is in love with his class. Like all the schools here in pretoria his school is an outdoor/ indoor campus. He walks across campus outside to his other classrooms through out the day. He enjoys having all he various specialties like art, music, and PE, and always has something exciting to share about his day. The campus holds both elementary and middle school children so there is a large mix of ages, but his classroom only has 13 children and every other day has a teaching assistant in the room. This makes for the kids getting a lot of one on one time with the teachers. The School does teach in the common core method, which is under a lot of debate right now, but Chase and I both like some of the principles behind it, so aren't too concerned right now.   I was impressed with his teacher's teaching plan for the year, and enjoy the fact that they have a no homework in Kindergarten rule! With being in an elementary school we have also found out how busy we all can be, there is always something to volunteer for at the school, and I signed up to be a room parent also. Mitchell does golf and swimming once a week after school and we are considering letting him choose a musical instrument in January (piano or guitar), just because we need more on our plate.. haha!


















Mitchell with his new BFF Miles, All I hear about in the afternoons is what him and Miles did today
Mitchell at his back to school picnic

Mitchell brought home the class "pet" CoCo the cow for the weekend,
We decided CoCo needed to go for a bike ride with us!
That's the basic news here in the Hartz household we have a few more trips planned before we come home in November, but other wise we are just going about our new normal routines! We hope everyone back home is well and happy and we can't wait to see you all soon!
XOX



Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Beach Birthdays!

This year Chase and I decided that instead of throwing birthday parties for the kids we would celebrate by taking trips and exploring more of this amazing country!  Spencer and Chase's birthdays just happen to be four days apart so we decided to celebrate their 3rd and 30th this year at the beach! About seven hours from Pretoria is the popular beach town of Durban, outside of Durban along he coast are several other smaller beach towns that are also popular places to stay. Our good friends Chuck and Mandy came along with us on the trip and we found a beach front house in an area called Umdloti that fit us all! The boys do great on car rides and so the journey there was easy. It was much like driving through Kansas to Denver with a few Mountains in the mix.
About an hour outside of Durban is an area called The Meander, which is full of rolling hills and lots of small artisan shops. It's a great place to stop if you have time to look for pottery, artwork, or as Chase found out for us wind chimes. We stopped at a shop on the side of a small mountain known for their hand made wind chimes. The shop is about the size of a large two car garage and you can hear the chimes ringing as you drive up. It's owned by the nicest gentleman who can tell you all about each chime and the sounds they make. When I went to pay I found they do not accept credit cards and he simply said that "it's alright, because people are in too big a rush these days", and he wrote me an invoice to pay when I got back to pretoria. I told him that was very trusting, but thanked him for being so accommodating. 
The Meander is also known for the famous Nelson Mandela capture site, the place in which he was captured before serving his 27 years in prison. Now the site is home to a beautiful sculpture that was put up at the 50th anniversary of his capture. The sculpture is made of 50 steal poles and set at the end of a brick path that symbolizes the "long walk to freedom". Along the path 30 meters from the sculpture you can stop and see the image of Nelson Mandela's head. I thought this sculpture was really impressive it took a lot of careful planning and thought to make it fit together so well. 

 






Once we got to our house it was nothing but relaxation and beach time! Chase and Chuck got to play a round of golf while Mandy and I spent time on the beach with the kids. We were only there for two full days, so it was a lot of sand and good food. I ordered a cake from the local coffee shop to take with us and the first night there we ate at a seaside restaurant and sang happy birthday to the boys!  The house was perfect it was situated on the beach, had a fabulous braii area, and even a pool (though it was too chilly to swim in it). Even though it is the middle of winter,  the day temperatures and the ocean water were both warm enough to enjoy, and because it's off season the beach and restaurants weren't busy at all.  Where we were the Ocean was pretty rough, there were a lot of waves and rocks especially at the beach outside our house. However,  walking distance from our house there was a spot along the beach with a large tide pool protected from the waves by larger rocks. This made for a perfect swimming spot, and when the tide was out we could go and climb along the rocks and look for sea life such a coral and urchins. 
 


The boys LOVED having Mandy and Chuck around to play with them! 
Sunrise from our deck

 











Mitchell asked to be buried in the sand... he couldn't stop giggling!
                                                   



Looking for sea life! 

Dad telling Mitchell about the different creatures and looking for crabs! 

Coral



We all agreed it was a great trip and have added it to our list of repeat vacations! 

Monday, July 14, 2014

The Tree of Life!

Shortly after moving here I decided to start looking for volunteer opportunities to help keep myself busy. I put a post out on the Child Life Council website to see if there were any needs for a Child Life Specialist here in Pretoria. My post connected me with an organization called OPSSA or Organization for Pediatric Support South Africa. Through OPSSA I have met many people who have a passion for Child Life and who hope to see it as a career here in South Africa. In June I was asked to present at a small seminar for health care professionals. I spoke on providing pre operative support, and also got to stay for the other presenters. One of the presenters, Megan is another American and former Child Life Specialist currently living in Jo-Burg.
Megan has spent the last several years living in Nigeria. As a missionary in Nigeria she worked with children in a photography program called Through Their Eyes and started doing photo workshops with the local children to give them a voice in their community. The pictures from the project were absolutely amazing. Having the children photograph their world was truly empowering for them, and helped others see how the children in their communities view what's happening around them. With her workshops she talked with the children about their roles in society and how their voices can make a difference. She then focused on parts of photography and the importance of point of focus when telling a story. The workshops helped bridge communication barriers between adults and children, and helped to show the children that they can be a part of change. The workshops had themes for the children to work with one for example being "I am Nigeria". The pictures the children took turned out amazing, and it's inspiring to see them tell their story through a camera. You can read about the Through Their Eyes photo project and see some of the pictures at www.throughtheireyesphotos.com
Over the last two weeks I have had the opportunity to help Megan with a special workshop here in Pretoria. Megan was asked to do a holiday workshop with children here that would then become part of the cities 'Feast of the Clowns' festival which is an annual celebration focusing at social justice issues. For Megan's workshop she combined a narrative therapy called The Tree of Life along with the photo workshop portion. The theme she was given to work with was "Un-Shackled" which goes along with the fact that this is the 20th Anniversary of the end of Apartheid.
The Tree of Life therapy has children look at their lives using the model of a tree. During the therapy children draw a tree with all it's standard parts. They discuss all the parts of the tree and then start paralleling it to parts of their lives. Starting at their 'roots' they discuss where they come from then move up the tree to discuss their skills and knowledge, their hopes and dreams, and the supportive people in their lives. Once the children have drawn their tree they then discuss how storms affect trees and what 'storms' they have in their lives. They then are able to start discussing how to protect their trees from these 'storms'.
I was able to help out with Megan's project on four different days. The first two days I was able to help with The Tree of Life portion of the workshop. We worked with 30 children ages 10-12. As expected some children took the project seriously and some did not. For those who did however, it was pretty impressive to see what they drew and expressed. I enjoyed talking with the children about their trees and the storms they face in their lives. To hear them talk about their storms with such casualty was at times unbelievable. These children discussed many hard issues such as bullies, violence, physical and sexual abuse, and parental neglect. I was proud of them for not being afraid to share their stories. It was also good to hear them talk about facing their storms and things they could do to overcome these issues.
On week two Megan started her photo workshop with the kids. They learned about using a camera, and importantly their points of focus. We talked about the theme of shackled vs unshackled and related it to their storms and the Tree of Life. They brainstormed ideas of what they could take pictures of to help tell their stories. They then were able to go out on the streets and start taking pictures. I didn't have the opportunity to walk with them out on the streets, but I helped a group of girls start to think about titles for their pictures they had already taken. Some of their pictures were really fabulous, and it was amazing to see their point of view and how it related to the over all theme.
The next step for Megan is to have their photos printed and then displayed for the festival. Some of these kids will be able to attend and it will be wonderful for them to see their work displayed for the whole city to see.  I can't wait to see the finished product!

Here are a few pictures of the workshop: 
Example of a Tree of Life Tree. This was an example Megan brought, I wish I had taken a picture of the children's work

Working hard on his tree

Working away on her tree

On the last day of the first week a tree was planted in the school yard  as a reminder of how strong our trees can be

Megan and some of the kids

practicing taking pictures and finding a point of focus

Photo Courtesy of Megan Ribbens
Out taking pictures

Photo Courtesy of Megan Ribbens

Photo Courtesy of Megan Ribbens

Photo Courtesy of Megan Ribbens
The Creche The program was held at

Photo Courtesy of Megan Ribbens

Megan has started brainstorming how to make these concepts work for children in the hospital setting, and I am excited to try it out! I love the concept of children using cameras to tell their stories. I think these two things combined would be empowering for children with chronic illness or long hospital stays.